Hello there im Justin but feel free to call me Jay. I live with my lovely husband who I have been married to for 5 years. Between us we have a teenage daughter and a young son.

I am a chef in a homeless hostel and love my work.

I am on here as I have decided its time to make some new friends, as when I came out 7 years ago I lost nearly all my friends. Now I have the confidence to stand up and say " im gay and if you dont like jog on " at the end of the day its there loss not mine.

Im a person who if I have something to say then I will say it, I do tend to say the wrong thing at times, but it is usually the truth.