I, with a deeper instinct, choose a [woman] who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. – Anais Nin
I’m selfish and like things my way!

Now that we’ve got that out of the way, I enjoy the little things, and finding someone to enjoy them with. I love when I can, have fun as much as I can, work hard, know who I am, know what I want and don’t settle. And I LOVE to laugh! I could laugh all the time!

I am a 35 year old bi female, though I learn much more toward the lesbian side. I wonder who is out there that needs to be a part of my life. No expectations. I'm just looking for someone that I click with. Sex, size and race don't matter. I firmly believe that it's the person that matters... the rest is just coating. I can tell you what I'm attracted to: honesty, laughter, intelligence, great conversation, and something to hold on to. I think women are meant to have curves. But no one is dismissed based because of their books cover!