This may not be politically correct, but I feel like an average straight guy who just so happens to be gay. I like being outdoos and being active as well as staying indoors and playing videogames. I kinda feel lost in that I never find gays with the same interests as me. If I do find someone with similar interests, we just don't happen to have any chemistry together. Maybe now you can understand my struggle. Once again probably not the best way to put this but, imagine two "average" straight guys who chill together but happen to be dating each other because they're gay. That's my basic breakdown of what I hope to have in a relationship.

cuddles
snuggles
being the little spoon