I am a well-traveled home body, if that's not too much of a contradiction. I love cooking and wine, walks with my dog and tranquility. What turns me on with a person is honesty, sense of humor and an open mind. Kindness goes a long way with me. I'm working on my listening skills. While I am not afraid to adopt technology, I much prefer a real conversation to anything intermediated electronically. Race and culture matters. Having said that, I don't have a racial preference in my partner choice. If your partner's race is feature that turns you on, I don't think we will be compatible romantically. There is, I believe, a profound difference between racial awareness and racial fetishism.