I am a loyal, honest, discrete Bear. Drama, BS, Fakes, Flakes, Endless Emails, and Games are some things that I wish not to participate in. Romantic encounters with other WHITE males are the only ones that interest me. I am shy at first but if you take the lead I will follow quickly. Unfortunately in our world (LGBT, admirers, and curious) we look at the outside (even more than heteros) rather than the qualities that make a person who they are. That being said, I am a very handsome large guy (i.e. not HWP) with a big heart. Because of the vanity issues in our community I will usually wait for you to contact me. If I flirt with you in however way this site allows it is a signal that I am interested and hoping you will let me know that you would like to learn more about me.

I have decided that most of these sites are made up of photo browsers and dick lookers. Don't get me wrong I like to look too! If your profile doesn't have up front photo's you probably aren't serious anyway or need a certain level of discretion because of your situation. Discretion is a guarantee with me because I am here to make friends or friends with benefits. I am not here to "out" anyone or cause drama in your life but only wish to make special relationships with like minded guys. If you allow me the honor of getting to know you, I would appreciate a photo of you attached to the first contact that you send. The photo is not for the purpose of a beauty pageant or judgement but because I would like an idea to whom I am conversing with. I do not have a type because everyone has their own special qualities.

I don't generally hop in the sack right off the bat but if you possess qualities that get my juices flowing I may wait at least thirty minutes. A little touchy feely doesn't make one a whore or promiscuous. LOL In my opinion flirting, teasing, and foreplay are greatly underrated. We were given the sense of touch for a reason. Tactile stimulation as well as visual enticement allow us the ability to tell if something or someone is hot! I will experiment with all kinds of sexual experiences once sometimes twice as long as it is mutually agreeable. I only require that you be willing to experience the same actions.

Maybe with a little luck on my side, something in my profile has caused you to peek a little further, piques your interest, and moved me to the peak of your list! A homophone from a homo may help too! hahaha

I have a secret wish for you to contact me. Until then all of my fantasies will be about you!